For the Mother, searching for our Father, knowing he will come through for our lives.

Guide wisdom from  Mother Gaia,

protection from  Father Cernnunos for all time.

Honor them for they are life.

They are the first and last, the beginning and the end; out from chaos rose.

2009 ~ Zephyr

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An open letter to the LGBTQA community from an asexual

You see me with my husband, you charge me as hetero. You saw me with my partner, you assumed I was gay. You saw me with both of them you say I was bisexual and for a while, I would have agreed except I wasn’t sexual. But I was romantic, right? So I was bisexual because that is all that can exist.

That was until my partner told me that I should look into something and wrote down the word “Asexual”.

“Wait you mean that sex doesn’t have to be part of relationships?”

“So I’m not broken because I never felt that way about people?”

“God’s I could have saved myself so much crap”

“You can have relationships with people even though you don’t love them like that!”

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Every time someone complains to me about preferring a vegan lifestyle for whatever reason and comes at me stupidly.

Me: There is a reason most people actually transition over time. To teach themselves not to go hungry. To find out what they can eat when they have health restrictions and allergies.

Hell, I’m in year five of my transition because restrictive diets and eating disorders are hard to manage, especially when you are low income.

If you jump into without thinking about and what it means for you as a person as well you do more damage in the end.

If you don’t understand veganism, ask.

I will “love” you, my way, not your way.

If you can’t accept it, then you don’t deserve it.

It is fierce, its passion, its the blood that flows through our veins.

It’s something beyond words.

It’s powerful and overwhelming. 

It can crush you or bring you to life.

My “love” is a untamable flame; once sparked it only grows.

Unless you try to stifle it and contain it. 

Shape it into what you want, and in turn, starve it.

So ask yourself:

Do you want vital and listless passion?

2014 ~ Zephyr